Think About It.

15 Aug


-Comment of the Day-


TBH he has had alcohol and drug issues for YEARS, much longer than Amber was even alive for, hell, he was pictured with a pipe walking with Manson into a friends house right after dropping Lily off to school in plain sight of the paps and he seemed to give zero fucks about it.

-but having said that-it’s funny how it’s been years of D & A abuse but never once has he been accused of hitting anyone, only things, until this particular relationship.

Funny how she sits idly by and collects images and video footage instead of hauling his ass to emergency to get treatment.

Funny how she goads him on, instead of attempts to help him.

Funny how she plies him with his vices instead of making a stand to remove such temptations from his environment and support him through rehab.

Funny how she’s throwing all this stuff out there into the public eye for her own selfish requirements instead of quietly trying to rally a support group together to help him fight his demons.

A person who cares (e’g-“she won’t file charges because she still ‘loves’ him and doesn’t want to get him in trouble”) would still want to see that person, even if the relationship is over, get the professional help he needs, and have a solid support network around him to help him regain control of his life-not splash out private images and heavily edited videos to gain sway with the court of public arena.

The funniest thing of all is that even though he has suffered his addictions for many years-his addictions never got so beyond uncontrollable to the point where both he and his actions could barely be recognized and where he developed such a low level of self confidence and self respect that it began to affect his work, his health and his image. For example-never before has he lashed out in the press so often-his motto was always the motto of “Don’t complain-NEVER explain.” That seemed to go right out the window after a level of time with this woman.

I guess maybe that’s where the difference is-his past exes tried to help him control and curb those addictions, tried desperately to help him, protect him, Scamber did the opposite-she enabled him, and manipulated him and used his illness to serve her own selfish end.

Yes-he has issues, and yes he needs help. But that still doesn’t prove he hit her, it just proves what a sad and lonely life he must have been living, filled with dread, fear and shame and the ever ominous shadow of blackmail hanging heavily over his head.

I was never more sad than seeing the video and the photo, thinking what sort of life could that be, sick, sad, trapped and basically alone-if he felt that he couldn’t trust his closest/nearest and dearest. Seeing Johnny before Scamber came into the picture and then after really is like seeing two different Johnnys. There is a reason for that.

I want the old Johnny back.






31 Responses to “Think About It.”

  1. linda August 15, 2016 at 9:40 pm #

    Beautiful. 😇

  2. BB August 15, 2016 at 9:50 pm #

    This says it all.

  3. serenity August 15, 2016 at 10:07 pm #

    Well said.

    Can’t help but think about his two children. I hope he can get his life together for them.

  4. Neeners August 15, 2016 at 10:13 pm #

    I couldn’t agree more. All the time he was with Amber, I expected to get up one morning and read he’d overdosed. I hoped that didn’t happen, but I’ve watched his decline since he got with her. I’m glad they’re over. I want the old Johnny back, too.

    • LilyS August 16, 2016 at 6:19 am #

      That’s what I was afraid of seeing too. Sill am to a degree, but I hope he’s got lot more fight left to put her in her (lowly) place, and hope he has a strong support network around him and hopefully not partying it up. 😦

  5. Tgirl August 15, 2016 at 10:19 pm #

    Wish I could write as well as you do.


  6. K August 15, 2016 at 10:32 pm #

    Linda said I – beautiful.

    • K August 15, 2016 at 10:34 pm #

      I rally need to learn to proof read before hitting post….

      Meant to say “Linda said it – beautiful”.

      Excuse my post happy fingers… 😳

      • LZ August 16, 2016 at 9:32 am #

        You’re not alone in that, K. 🙂

        I suppose as long as we understand the message, the typo errors and grammatical mistakes are set aside, if not totally ignored.

  7. Wendy August 15, 2016 at 10:45 pm #

    I really can’t stand her. What does she have to gain to make this all public? She wants to be proven a dv victim AND cash out? You can be a victim and press charges. You can be a shameless gold digger and take that million and shut up. You really can’t be both.

    • Noni August 16, 2016 at 5:58 am #

      Very good and very true Wendy.

    • LZ August 16, 2016 at 9:51 am #

      She wants to be both. Like what happened in Australia, she wants Johnny to “save” her from having a measly bank account and list of assets, as well as from having the public see her as a liar.

      As much as I want Johnny to demand a public apology from her as part of his settlement terms, that’s thrown out of the window with her insistence of a “joint” declaration which states his admission of committing domestic violence against her. How can she demand that he save her from her own mess when she’s essentially kicking him like a gangster?

  8. August 15, 2016 at 10:56 pm #

    Definetly could not have said it better

  9. sadforjd August 15, 2016 at 11:06 pm #

    I think johnny has aN addiction problem whether it be drugs or alcohol, which is nothing new he’s been drinking and doing drugs for most of his life. He has a temper which he’s amended to that as well. We seen him sweet, kind, friendly, funny, drunk, high and freaking out. The video shows he has a temper and watching someone freak out like that isn’t funny. Most of us have lost it from time to time, smashed things, swearing, screaming and doing things that we are not proud of. The video didn’t show him hitting her or even swearing at her…and she definitely wasn’t in fear of her life.
    A friend of mine’s husband freaks out like that and it can be scary to say the least and she can’t take it at times. Now saying that if turd ball would have said ‘ I’m leaving him cause of his drinking and temper…I can’t take it’. I’m guess Depp would have given her a more than generous paid out with a gag order to keep their lives private and she would have been on her way to her next mark. BUT SHE’S SUCH A NARCISSISTIC DEVIOUS LYING BITCH.. .. I just can’t believe it. It doesn’t take much to see she lies all the time but the thing is not many people are that interested her or even know her….it all about johnny. People know him and are interested in him. If that scum bag was married to another D actor it won’t even hit the tabloids…they would be just like us common foke.
    Dumb bitch

    • aquagirl10009 August 16, 2016 at 12:37 am #

      You’re so right. He would’ve been very generous to her and they both could’ve moved on. But that was never her intent. She wanted to take him down.

    • Noni August 16, 2016 at 7:04 am #

      Unfortunately what takes place (post edit I must say) in the video constitutes DV but your piece Andy is really very very good. My daughter is a team leader for the largest DV Charity and Refuge for victims in the UK and while she tends to refrain from saying anything which may point to disbelief of allegations of DV she read what you posted and said ‘this is very good’..which speaks volumes (she is far better than I at keeping things short and sweet). I also asked her about the video last night. Her reply was ‘sadly, yes, it is Domestic Abuse.'(nb the ‘sadly’) She also, along with her colleagues took a ‘straw poll’ when all this really got going. I hesitate to write what the result was as I don’t want to make it seem as if these girls who work tirelessly for the victim’s of DV do not take their cases seriously, hopefully this sentence conveys what they think. More often than not, they work well over the hours they get paid for, especially if they are in court with a victim. They also have to be careful when they are at work (especially at night) and/or arriving and leaving work, because quite often the abuser finds out where the victim is and decides upon an all out assault to breach the security of the refuge. It is chilling to hear her tell of it happening in the small hours seeing something move on the CCTV and on closer scrutiny realising it is a man climbing over the wall or wire to get to the rear entrance. There are very good security measures in place and the police take literally seconds to attend, these refuges are usually dotted about in various areas of busy cities, therefore a greater number of police.
      I get the impression that she (my oldest daughter) is quite disparaging of this video evidence. A true victim is too busy being afraid for her physical well-being (and getting out of the way) to even consider filming anything. A true victim also tends not to say or do anything whatsoever (wish i had italics here as don’t like using capital’s to underline a point) to anger the perpetrator further and therefore doesn’t usually ask any questions. The victim wants the incident to stop and asking questions impedes this. My daughter is of the opinion (just as we all are) that the questions are rehearsed and designed to set him up. I do know this much; she and her colleagues are angry bc of the knock-on effect on true victims of DV, those who do not have the benefit of being able to book into a posh hotel, stay in the bungalow of an insanely rich ‘friend’, bugger off to another country (whether she is working or not) associate and party with their pals-they tend to leave everything behind, not always as they are, in effect starting over, and they’re usually disorientated bc of what they’ve been through. True victims of DV have the option of one thing…take themselves and if they have any, their children, to Refuge.
      Heard didn’t even attempt to move away when JD came into the area of the room she was in.
      Lastly, I am of the belief that it is indeed JD in the video but for those who do not I concede that when he reaches for the bottle of wine she very quickly puts her coffee(?) down in front of the lens of the phone thereby obscuring his hand. She does it extremely fast. God, I do go on, apologies to you all, and hope I haven’t gone off topic Andy. Thanks for your patience guys, that is if you’ve got this far.

      • Noni August 16, 2016 at 7:24 am #

        Good God, I just scrolled thru really quick to continue reading the comments of others and saw, for a split second my own. This is what Early Onset Dementia does…my stomach churned bc I thought I had basically written the same as someone else. I am very happy I did not lol.

      • Anonymous August 16, 2016 at 9:02 am #

        Would like to know what part of the video does your daughter believe is DV? I do not see him hit her, it appears he grabs the phone at the very end and rightfully so since he did not give permission. What part “constitutes DV’?

      • Adriana Merchiori August 16, 2016 at 9:04 am #

        Would like to know what part of the video does your daughter believe is DV? I do not see him hit her, it appears he grabs the phone at the very end and rightfully so since he did not give permission. What part “constitutes DV’?

        • Noni August 16, 2016 at 9:22 am #

          DV doesn’t have to be physical. Smashing things, shouting etc is classed as DV. There is also Financial Abuse, where the perp.controls the victim by not allowing he/she to have any money of their own. Incidentally, if you read what I actually wrote after talking with her you will see that there is a deeper meaning behind what my daughter said. At the end of the day, DV is not always about being ‘hit’, also i happen to believe that she is an awful creature, and as my daughter also stated, she believes that Heard wasn’t acting in a recognisable manner which is consistent with DV and that when she spoke it had been rehearsed. So, to recap, the way JD was behaving falls within the recognised parameters of DV and that is all I was saying. Hope this clarifies what I wrote.

  10. jenny August 15, 2016 at 11:19 pm #

    i think he felt betray by Amber… so much anger and frustration from him in that relationship… I really think that he believed in HER… DOn’t forget (i know you don’t lol) SHE HAS STUDY HIM, study his interview, his tic, expression, looks, what he likes (music, books, etc) SHe tried and succeed to make him believe that she was his SOULMATE! +she gave him luxure, etc. He underestimate her…when she tought she got him(control), she probably, slowly showing her real face!! Just a little bit to keep control of him… And before the divorce, i cant imagine what she said to him, trying to make him feel like a fool,crazy,etc. What she said or did just before taping herself the video!!!? Sorry for my english, im french! 😀

  11. Monkee August 16, 2016 at 1:17 am #

    Smoking pot does not make a person a raging addict. In fact, many smoke it medicinally. I really wish it were not written about alongside really hard drugs like booze. I know people that use it medicinally, some of them very close to me, and would use it myself if I needed it. I just wanted to put that out there because we don’t know why Johnny was smoking pot. It could well be that is kids know he smokes it because he has a prescription for it. We have medical marijuana in California, after all.

  12. Snowy August 16, 2016 at 1:44 am #

    I was so piss at Amber when I watch te bad edit video she purposely leaked to the media for her own selfish vain and yes I know Johnny has issues but we didn’t need to see him having a tantrum and not once did Johnny come in contact witn Amber he never hit her and he did’t even yell at her ,he was annoy at and he wad ignoring her and se kept tauntig him and he didn’t cave in like she was hoping he would

  13. Ps August 16, 2016 at 4:50 am #

    Facts: What has presented does not show aggression to it, shows that Johnny gets hurt, but never her

  14. Ps August 16, 2016 at 4:51 am #

    As it will prove that it was he who wrote it? She is dumb total when it seems a poorly prepared plan, but might be her handwriting.

  15. Anonymous August 16, 2016 at 5:35 am #

    You write wonderfully , and you said it all. Johnny is another person since he started his relationship with this woman. I still don’t understand how she made him think that she was all that, his soulmate etc, because everybody ( and Stanhope said this too) could see how false she is!! She is such a bad actress that she couldn’t even pretend to be a wonderful woman to him! he was the only one she fooled . How?! I will never understand this…never…she is not the only pretty girl in the world, she is not the only woman that likes to have sex, and she has a horrible personality! so to me, the most shocking thing of all this situation stills why he lost himself to this woman…he is better than her in every possible way! but it seems he thought exactly the opposite.
    i always thought about something that ,in my opinion, could have made him think of her that way too: the fact that he met her at the Rum Diary shooting. I read that a chair was kept at the set, like it was Hunter. T chair, as to pay him this contribute, as if he was present there etc. We all know how much he worshiped H.T(too much, in my opinion) and the fact that he found this woman while filming that movie, makes me think that somehow he felt that was perfect, meant to be, and somehow ” blessed” by H.T.
    Huge mistake!

    • Andy August 16, 2016 at 6:16 am #

      Thx for your post. I am still of the opinion H.T. Would have told him,”fuck her once and get out!”

      • Tgirl August 16, 2016 at 6:34 am #

        Agreed. Hunter was a no bs kind of a guy. I think he would have seen this bitch for the psychopath she is and told Johnny to run away fast.

      • Noni August 16, 2016 at 9:24 am #

        Abso bloody lutely!

      • intohim August 16, 2016 at 10:13 am #

        I agree. HT would have said something of that nature. And I said it too…get it out of your system( fuck her) and move on. She is not a keeper!

      • Pennywise August 16, 2016 at 10:55 am #

        Ahhh, Hunter S. Thompson, the Great Gonzo. Excellent journalist!!! Who, as we all know,was a dangerously crazy, drug/alcohol fueled Narcopath himself. RIP.
        Amber is HST’s female doppelgänger. Subconsciously, Johnny married HST via Amber. Johnny took what he so often calls a “wild ride man” and lost. 😦

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