Possibility. The Reclusive Friend.

4 Jun
This post is based on my opinion only.

 

Johnny Depp hasn’t been around some of his better known friends in years. At least publicly. No photos have surfaced of Johnny and a few of his friends for several years. Why? These are people he has known for a long time. Not just a few years.

Keith Richards stated in an interview not too long ago that he hadn’t seen Johnny in a couple of years. We haven’t seen Johnny around Bill Carter either. We have no idea who was and wasn’t at Johnny’s “home wedding ceremony” but we do know from beach aerial photos that none of those people attended his wedding.

Did Amber Heard have a hand in this? We know Johnny drinks and has issues in the past with being publicly intoxicated. Yet Amber has been photographed with him, drinking, and that’s not such a good thing around someone that gives a speech blitzed at the Hollywood Film awards. It’s called enabling. They can easily take advantage of a person’s weakness(es).

You see…we speak about that which we know. Amber Heard has some very serious allegations against Johnny Depp. Violence, drugs, physical abuse, and when we look at the personalities of both Heard and Depp, we get a picture that doesn’t make sense along side her allegations.

Depp is known to be gentle, a well mannered good man despite his love of alcohol. No other complaints against him, or stories of physical abuse from other past girlfriends. Trashing a hotel shows a temper, it does not prove or show that a person physically assaults someone. His reputation has always proceeded him.

Amber Heard however has made it known she has a temper, has been caught lying multiple times, has seen to be manipulative, and has a past with drugs (which she admitted to in one of her interviews) and states she’s independent and head strong. The body guards stated that they had to get her OFF Johnny numerous times. That shows SHE is physically abusive and out of control.

I would hate to think she took advantage of Depp’s weakness and isolated him to an extent from any friend(s) that may try to talk sense in to him. OR due to a weakness it may have been easier to exclude and distance his own self from those that would talk sense to him.

I don’t know if those he has been around,have said anything to him, or why they may not have. Perhaps they feel it’s his own journey and he has to get out of this shit on his own. After all some of them have already battled demons.

It is my opinion that Amber Heard has taken advantage of his weakness, and made a lie into national news. His past temper, combined with a drinking problem(two things that the world knows to be true) can equal the perfect trap to make the world believe she’s been assaulted. In reality…?

In reality we have a man who desperately needs the world to wait on his side of the story. A man who may have been taken advantage of for monetary gain. ALL the signs were THERE concerning Amber Heard. She’s known about Johnny Depp for years. Before she even met him. She saved “proof” of abuse for over two years. SOMETHING isn’t right in this story. The court of public opinion have burned him at the stake before knowing his side. The media is the worst about it. Kangaroo court.

There are a lot of strategies that an abusive partner uses in order to control their partners aside from physical violence — verbal abuse, isolation, controlling the finances or trying to.

THERE ARE people both men and women who lie about being abused. (Jodi Arias) It isn’t as common as the flu, but it happens.

I’d start taking a look back over personalities here. Amber Heard FALSIFIED records (Australia), has a history of lying, blows through money(as seen in court records – her income), has numerous quotes that are questionable and raise eyebrows, PURPOSEFULLY placed herself around Johnny Depp, and instead of keeping her cards close and dealing with this in court, is going overboard on releasing all the “abuse” allegations to the media. (magazines have to pay you for a story, or putting you on the cover.)

Johnny Depp had a temper in the past, and has been intoxicated in public. No one has EVER stated he was physically abusive.

Reputations mean something. Actions speak louder than words.

May the truth come.

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41 Responses to “Possibility. The Reclusive Friend.”

  1. Liz June 5, 2016 at 12:39 am #

    Shit and I just was reading this. How perfectly fitting: https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/evolution-the-self/201404/the-vampire-s-bite-victims-narcissists-speak-out

    “Of all the oppressive, crazy-making features of the narcissist, the one perhaps most frequently cited is their exasperating dishonesty. And such untruthfulness has at times led their no-longer-so-gullible victims to describe them as con artists. Here’s a highly selective sampling of such complaints:

    “The lies, the flirting, the lies, the comparing, the lies, the ambivalence, the lies, the belittling, the lies, the teasing, the lies, the built up promises, the lies, the setting up for disappointment. Did I mention the lies?” [!]

    Frankly almost EVERY part of that article could be pulled and used. I also really loved this part:
    “I learned that ‘kicking you when you’re down’ is a standard characteristic of the N.”

    Damn. Just damn.

  2. Liz June 5, 2016 at 12:41 am #

    And that photo gives me the creeps. I mean, more so than the usual ones of her. And look at her perfectly flawless face again.

    • Mango June 5, 2016 at 1:03 am #

      I got a bad vibe from her when I saw the movie…. I remember feeling… Oh this is not good…. The love scene looked too au natural……
      And that snake look she gave him in that sweet Chevy….. It’s always been in the eyes…. To me

      • strider June 5, 2016 at 12:26 pm #

        I felt the exact same. It’s in the eyes..

    • TheBlackCat June 5, 2016 at 12:10 pm #

      Funny you say that …I cringe every time I see it too Liz

  3. Mango June 5, 2016 at 1:32 am #

    Its just a thought I have but I’m wondering…. If he was so ga ga over her… How come 2013 hit … It always looked like she gave him a headache… Wanted to drive her to the country and hell in 2015…. Busted his hand , looks about dead half the time…slurs and drinks to escape reality… Stays in his band as much as possible…. Fought excessively on set till she got banned… I agree in the beginning I saw a genuine affection in a couple of pics… When Amber was in the navy dress… It looked like he whispered something to her… So to speak… She had a fond look to her… But ever since RS concert 2013… It’s been stress , grievance, turmoil, or him if he’s smiling he looks and acts out of it… Love just doesn’t seem to fit…..

    • Liz June 5, 2016 at 12:02 pm #

      Did you read the above link about how they get their victims hooked and then what happens after? She basically played him like a yo yo and that begins to have its toll on your mind. First you wonder what you’ve done wrong? And they help by telling you how it’s your fault. You try to fix it. You can’t. You loose all sense of self, your confidence, slide into depression (that is likely when he began to turn back to the drink), and then you can’t even comprehend where it all went wrong or how to get out.
      Even now, he isn’t ready nor has he begun to figure out what has happened. He may even still feel love for her. It seems crazy to us, it seems crazy to him. It’s not. Its NPD victim syndrome.
      We can’t comprehend why he didn’t leave even when he seemed over it because we are thinking logically. He was not. He was not capable.
      I have been there, that is how I can bypass the logical. Even to this day I ask myself, why didn’t I get away from that person every time they did some shit!?! I saw it. Knew it wasn’t right. But just kept falling for it. It makes you feel stupid. I am not. It makes you feel less than human. I am not. I survived this bullshit. Though there was never any psychical abuse, I can hardly image having that added to your mind fuck!

      • Liz June 5, 2016 at 12:06 pm #

        I am a kind, empathetic and generous person who kept validating it because there was good in that person, or so I thought. It’s not that you believe they will change, it’s that you believe the good you see IS the real person while their lies are the facade. When in fact, it is the other way around.
        Johnny is 100% the perfect mark for this kind of person.
        hope some of this insight helps. But I know many will still go “but WHY did he stay!?!”
        As I said, he will be asking himself that for the rest of his life.

      • Spazze June 5, 2016 at 12:09 pm #

        Yup! Totaly agree with you on everything you wrote.!

      • phonytexanbitch June 5, 2016 at 3:25 pm #

        And it’s that lack of confidence that has ruined his career. He takes on a character but has no confidence in his ability. That’s what has hurt him. Even his Cpt Jack is lacking. I hope he was away from her enough during POTC5 filming so that he was able to find a bit of self-confidence.

  4. Mango June 5, 2016 at 1:33 am #

    Oh and on the LR tour in Tokyo with kids… It’s looked to be a VERY awkward family trip….

    • Barbara June 5, 2016 at 9:22 am #

      What happened in Japan? Inquiring minds and all that…

      • Mango June 5, 2016 at 9:12 pm #

        If you go back and look at those pics…. it would be in archives to this blog Im sure because it extends all the back to Jan 2012… pretty sure…. You can tell it is awkward on all of them, the kids dont really know how to deal especially Jack… oughta check Jacks face…..priceless.

  5. m June 5, 2016 at 1:46 am #

    It’s been quite awhile since these two have been together. Hopefully, it’s for the long haul since Chupa is at the top of everyone’s shit list.

    • Louise June 5, 2016 at 9:21 am #

      I honestly thought they had fallen out. Maybe keeping distance because of Chupa

      • Liz June 5, 2016 at 1:28 pm #

        Tim reportedly said he had a hard time being around Johnny while he was with Kate because “he wasn’t like Johnny anymore.” I think because of all the drinking and drugs and depression. Yet they did continue to work together. I’m guessing this time, Tim couldn’t watch his friend go through it again. I wonder what went down on that Alice promo tour. I think Tim was there Monday night as well, so he was with Johnny after Johnny was served.

  6. Mango June 5, 2016 at 2:38 am #

    Wow ever since Her arrived on the scene he flew the coop… Even DS… Besides the movie I don’t remember much public contact…
    Interesting to see them together … Wish he’d take those safety pins out of his ears…. Maybe extra for his clothing…. Sorry… There is a difference between a “look” and it seems trying to lessen yourself… Maybe it’s a repellent of sorts…

  7. Spazze June 5, 2016 at 3:30 am #

    Having grown up in a household where my dad was/is the narcisistic sociopathic alcholic abuser (while drunk and sober) Amber fits the classic signs of being one.

    Just as people say Amber fits being the abused, she also fits into being the abuser.
    And like some people say Depp fits in to being the abuser (which, I do not agree with) he fits into being the abused too (more likely).

    But that is going from we get fed from the media, looking back in their history and past+present behaviour.

    I will admit if AMber had said, Depp hit me while he was drunk (1-2-3-4 times) during our relationship aka violant drunk – I could believe that, but she decided to take the abuser route, and him being abusive towards her since year 1.

    An abuser is always an abuser and will always be an abuser, sober or drunk.

    But if she would have had the same behaviour as she has now, but said he was a violant drunk, I’d still be skeptical to her claims since abused victims don’t go all “crazy” with the tabloids as this thing have been.

    The only reason for me today of giving Amber any amount of support in this (though I am 90% over on Depp’s side) is the fact I do not personally know them, never met them, don’t know what happened between them in their relationship and that all of what we are hearing and seeing is coming from the media who loves to twist things into their on favour so they can get ratings which increase income.

    I am against abuse, on people and animals, I don’t see any different to regards of age, gender, sexual orientation, wealth, fame, religion or the color of their skin.
    With being against abuse I am also against false allegations, of any kind really.
    Media do more damage than good sometimes.

    I am not a Depp fan, haven’t followed his career very much, only seen random movies through out the years, like I have with many other actors, the same with music.
    I’ve seen headlines over the years, including this one and felt since day one when I saw Amber (when they met) something was off about her but couldn’t put my finger on it. Not that I invested anything in it.
    I wouldn’t be heart broken if he was/is guilty of this he is accused of.
    I am strictly going with my own experiences, gut, eyes and years of going to therapy as an abused and having family and friends who has been in various of degrees of abused relationships and family situations.

    I myself have including my sibling have struggled with addiction and depression due to our past, so I know when I see and addict who has or is struggeling with depression.

    It is very sad that media is hating on people who are addicts and struggle with depression, that has to stop too.

    And so will this post now, feeling it is getting way too long!

    • sadforjd June 5, 2016 at 11:51 am #

      SPAZZE, So sorry to hear of her heart breaks and challenges. I wish you all the best and kindness .

      I’m too don’t or didn’t follow Depp or any other celebrity but when Turdy come about I was curious about her and Depp’s relationship. …it was like a movie of munipulation, aggressive mind games of isolating and hurting a person for the other’s satisfaction. Leaving us twisting and turning to see when and how the victim would escape.

      People have refer to the ‘ gone girl ‘ movie but the ending is not good for the abuser. He caves cause she pregnant. I truly hope that she’s not pregnant cause I think Depp would take her back and will miserable for the rest of his life.

      IMO,she let him drink, smoke and do whatever to keep him close to her and then isolating him from family and friends who were trying to get him clean and sober. Perhaps now some of his family and friends will come forward and tell him what they thought amber was doing to him or he will reflect back on the discussions he had with these people years ago and come to his senses.

      • Spazze June 5, 2016 at 12:05 pm #

        This part:
        ” she let him drink, smoke and do whatever to keep him close to her and then isolating him from family and friends. ”

        Is typical sociopathic abusive behaviour to do towards their victim.
        It is a form of control.

        The fact that when he traveled and worked, she followed says a lot too. (Abuse victim stay behind unless they are forced to go with) The sociopath always wants to be close, controling their victims every move. The sociopath is aways the one that must be in control too.
        Narcisim plays into this too, but the sociopathic behaviour is the dangerous one out of the two.

        That it is a woman makes it even more dangerous, if it were a man, people would call out on it right away, but when it’s a woman… well, society is what society is. Sociopathic women are more dangerous then a sociopathic man.

        Or Amber is just plain and simply greedy. However, her behaviour says otherwise. A narcisistic sociopath. Be very careful around them! They can fool anyone unless they have seen that “evil” side of her.

        I doubt Johnny is what she claim him to be.
        But I can be wrong.

      • Liz June 5, 2016 at 1:02 pm #

        well said Spazze. I too think she may be all the way into sociopath territory. Which is why people can’t believe she would be “faking” all this! I know women who weren’t that far gone and faked abuse.

        Could Johnny has lost his temper in a drunken, grieving fit of temper and threw something at her, sure. But was the abusive to her the ENITRE relationship, all evidence is to the contrary. She acted as the controller, not the controlled.

  8. Jaj Latty June 5, 2016 at 5:40 am #

    I think Depp lawyers could benefit by reading this entire post……could you forward it to them??

    • Author June 5, 2016 at 5:41 am #

      Good idea

      • Libra June 5, 2016 at 2:11 pm #

        Please check your emails I found sth interesting about ” attacks “

    • Liz June 5, 2016 at 1:05 pm #

      His lawyers, his friends, his family and HIM! He needs someone to start slowly giving him this information to digest. Better yet he seeks a mental health professional. I can only imagine how terrifying that idea would be to someone like him given his status and desire to protect his privacy but he could really really use it. Just to find some clarity and understanding. Plus he’s a man, she’s accused him of abuse publicly (with “evidence”) many have already convicted him. Right now I’m sure he’s saying “no one will ever believe me, will ever believe the truth!” And sadly, some won’t. But he needs to know that many will, that he’s not the first nor the last.

      • sadforjd June 5, 2016 at 8:48 pm #

        I think that many men won’t go to counseling because they think it makes them look weak and the feel humiliated.

  9. mud6352@gmail.com June 5, 2016 at 7:02 am #

    I believe her plan was to isolate wasnt working knowing johnny would be touring this summer had to do something yea she needed new plan

    • Liz June 5, 2016 at 1:12 pm #

      I kept saying they were broken up. Or at least estranged. I think she was hanging in until her day in court in AUS because she knew she couldn’t get out of that alone. I don’t think they saw each other after they returned. She claims he came by after her bday party on April 21st. I rather doubt that tale too. Then she really didn’t see him again until the alleged iPhone night. So the day his mother died she didn’t bother to see him? More like he didn’t bother to see her.
      I think his fatal mistake was after Doug and pals opened his eyes, he went to her to likely say “I know you’re going to do something to me but I’m ending this.” And that is when the shit hit the fan. Either that or like many victims he went hoping to get her to tell him the truth “WHY are you doing this to me?” Hoping in his weakest hour she would show some compassion and give him some piece of mind. But again…“I learned that ‘kicking you when you’re down’ is a standard characteristic of the N.”
      BIG mistake. I’m pretty sure that’s why he had his security standing by. He was scared she’d come at him. But of course, they’re all totally lying. All people claiming any knowledge of Amber lying and manipulating and making threats and attacking him are lying.
      But Amber and her friend MUST be telling the truth.
      Johnny did what all victims do, with his last silver of hope, and it cost him everything. He should’ve stayed far away from her and filed for divorce.
      of course then this “december 2015” photos would have emerged with a new story to go with them.

  10. Paul sayce June 5, 2016 at 7:35 am #

    I don’t suppose she’s after a pay out is she…

  11. amberneverheard June 5, 2016 at 8:23 am #

    In her plan: she tought he would make her the new Angelina JOlie!!! She doesnt have talent, charisma… she’s probably frustrated and jealous about Lili-Rose attention (cause SHE is more beautiful, talented and has charisma…thanks good genes!!!;) ) And she was probably pissed about all the attention (love) Johnny gets by fans every where they were going… all that was not in her plan and that probably make her really angry!!! (sorry my english) :DD

  12. saufampere June 5, 2016 at 8:49 am #

    johnny said he used to drink and take drugs to “self medicate” or dull himself in the 90s and that was an addiction but do y’all think he still does that nowadays? i know he drinks like everyday but i think he drinks cause he loves wine and rhum, not because he wants to dull himself
    or am i in denial? does drinking every day mean that someone automatically has a drinking problem? yes there was that incident when he was presenting an award drunk but it always annoys me when every one says on EVERY damn interview he’s ever done that he looks ‘high or drunk’ when i know that hes always talked/been like that………. is that cause hes shy/anxious or bc hes actually drunk all the time

    i always thought his drinking problem was in the past. can yall share your thoughts on this?

    • Spazze June 5, 2016 at 11:18 am #

      an addiction is an addiction.
      Alcoholics should stay away from alcohol, taking one drink is not ok if you are an acoholic.
      Because it is very easy to loose self control.

      Everyone has different opinions if someone who drinks alcohol everyday has a problem with alcohol or not.
      I think they do, even if it is only a beer or a glass of whine. But then again, with my history of an alcoholic of a father makes me just not like people who drink or be around drunk people.

      Some think it is perfectly fine to take a drink everyday.

      But if someone has a drinking and/or drug problem, in the past, it is forever. An addiction, is an addiction.

      • sadforjd June 5, 2016 at 12:03 pm #

        I personally think johnny has an issue with alcohol, it seems like he can control it from time to time but he loses it allot over the past couple of years..now saying that I have friends who have a drink or two every day…I don’t for me it’s a social thing. A friend asked me if I thought they had a drinking problem when they told me how much alcohol they have purchased over the year..I was surprised but it made sense with a couple drinks a day and they entertain allot. I love this friend allot …I told her no I don’t think you have drinking problem as I rarely ever drink but if she couldn’t go a couple days or week without a drink it may be a problem. …similar to people smoking…if they can’t go without a smoke, you have addiction.

  13. Ps June 5, 2016 at 10:40 am #

    I hope he rescue the lost time. Children, friends, privacy.

    • sadforjd June 5, 2016 at 12:04 pm #

      Agree a 1000%

    • Liz June 5, 2016 at 1:14 pm #

      sadly he can’t go back and get that time but I do think moving forward he will have more time with them. I suspect they will spend much of June with him. Let’s hope.

  14. Rum Lover June 5, 2016 at 12:54 pm #

    Glad to see his long time pal Tim Burton there for him however I’m waiting for Marilyn Manson see what hes got to say about this conniving manipulative attention seeking famewhore, I’m sure hes seen her trailer park side !!

    • Liz June 5, 2016 at 1:25 pm #

      But again, Manson is lying. He’s Depp’s friend. He’s a completely un credible witness. Except you know, Depp was hiding at his house.
      Lainey is pissing me off. She has bought Amber’s story hook line and sinker and now she’s turning everything she thought she saw around. But what about that story you had Lainey?? About Manson believing Amber was crazy, Johnny crashing on his couch. Yeah that was YOUR story.
      Just like the tabloids pissing me off. Every one of them are claiming “sources” tell us about all the times Johnny abused Amber. Hey are those the SAME sources that sold us their happy love story through the years??? Oh no of course those must’ve been Johnny’s. Except they NEVER sounded like Johnny’s.

      I present to everyone the only proof you need that these are Amber’s sources and they are completely and entirely full of shit: http://www.eonline.com/news/736398/inside-johnny-depp-and-amber-heard-s-first-year-of-marriage-they-understand-one-another-in-a-way-no-one-else-ever-could

      She understood him so well hey? Yeah seems like it.
      I think every single one of these publications buying her story now should be forced to run THESE love stories with their sources right along side every one of the “accusation” stories. Fair is fair right? PEOPLE mag is the WORST offender. But ALL of them were guilty. Their sources are 100% wrong one way or the other, so which is it???????

      That might be a funny post. The media then and now. What their sources said then vs now. It’s so obvious it’s disgusting!!! Proves that they don’t know shit, check shit or get shit right.

      Yet TMZ has correctly broken more than one story as of recent and it seems so I continue to be interested that they keep getting what little there is to “the other side” of this story.

      sorry long post again but this “only his people are lying” bullshit is on my last nerve!

    • mud6352@gmail.com June 5, 2016 at 3:04 pm #

      Agree Rum Lover

  15. Minnie1 June 5, 2016 at 1:31 pm #

    Cdan and Lainey ran a blind about how his “girl” was really crazy and he kept running from her and sleeping on his best friend’s sofa presumably Manson . Friends didn’t want him to marry her, but he was at a low point, so…

  16. mud6352@gmail.com June 5, 2016 at 3:03 pm #

    Yea TMZ hopefully can get this info they would check source and let loose few of them lawyers know what they can say been watching i remember him staying eith manson i think hus people and friends knew this relationship nit a good thing

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