I am for women and men speaking up when they are abused. Case in point, recently Kie$ha, and I know that many men and women get away with domestic violence and should not. I would like to state that given Amber Heard’s words, her character, and her past behavior I think in these accusations she needs to put her proof forward. If she has video she needs to substantiate her claim of physical abuse because unfortunately her timing is suspicious as fuck.
Domestic abuse news of note — yet another famous celebrity couple has filed for a divorce! Actress Amber Heard has been accused by Johnny Depp‘s family members of verbally abusing him according to a May 26 website report from TMZ. Were their sources telling the truth when they claimed that the blonde bombshell was abusive to him?
If her personality type is what many Hollywood insiders have long suspected, she may in fact have been doing exactly that regularly… talking trash, behaving egocentrically, manufacturing social and emotional chaos in his life, and striving to isolate him from friends and family members who otherwise could have shown social and emotional support to him.
Star celebs in Hollywood are notorious for having Somatic Narcissist personality types. Typically obsessed with their own beauty and personal lifestyle needs, the more grandiose the celebrity’s self-image, the more likely they are to devalue and compete with other people socially and emotionally with alarming regularity.
[Typical examples of Somatic Narcissist personality types include Kris Jenner, Kim Kardashian, Kylie Jenner, and Kanye West.]
Heard, a tall blonde cross in appearance between “Twilight” actress Kristen Stewart and a young Sharon Stone, worked with Depp on the film the “Rum Diaries”. Having just come out of the closet as bi-sexual and open to long term but non-monogamous relationships in the LGBT social circles, she surprised many entertainment news junkies with her decision to settle down and marry actor Johnny Depp very soon after meeting him.
Depp began dating heard a short time after he broke up with long term girlfriend Vanessa Pardis, a French supermodel known for having a very haughty and narcissistic personality. Prior to dating Pardis, he was also romantically linked to another woman with a problematic personality type — supermodel Kate Moss.
TMZ sources claimed that Depp’s mother — who died just three short days before Amber Heard filed for a divorce from the reclusive Empath — was not a fan of the starlet. Their sources claim that she even confronted Heard directly during several staged interventions.
Depp’s mother allegedly felt that Heard was using Johnny’s fame and fortune to further her own career. She also allegedly felt Heard was verbally abusing him with alarming regularity — noting that Depp and Pardis’ two teenage children also had a terrible time accepting the new female role model into their life as a step-mother… allegedly because she was mistreating their daddy!
Since the report surfaced on the entertainment news website, Heard’s publicity team and press camp have lashed out aggressively defending the actress. Their claim is that not only was Heard a devoted wife, she has pictures of herself snuggling with the actor’s teenage son.
Why Heard would ever in a million years let her press camp claim she has private photos of herself snuggling or cuddling up in a romantic way with a teenage boy is virtually incomprehensible — unless one learns to spot the warning signs that a person has a personality disorder.
Heard is suspected of being at least mildly ASPD by nature as well as NPD. That means she is likely to exhibit personality traits of a Somatic Narcissist (obsessed with appearance, prestige, and status) coupled with an intense egocentric drive to be in a position of social and emotional power over others.
When a person meets diagnostic criteria for having a personality disorder, they tend to exhibit certain romantic habits as patterns. In the case of Miss Heard, she appears to have followed the part and parcel plan for committing an act called “Love Fraud”, a Narcissistic Abuse scam whereby one person, a social predator, swoops in pretending to be everything their targeted con ever wanted in a romantic partner.
Love Fraud experts typically have a comorbid personality type that includes high levels of textbook Narcissism (per the DSM5 standard diagnostic criteria) coupled with strong Machiavellian tendencies and a noted Anti-Social personality streak.
For more information about how to spot the red flags and warning signs you or a person you know has been targeted for Love Fraud, check out True Love Scam, True Love Fraud Stories, and Narcissists, Sociopaths, and Flying Monkeys — Oh My! (TM) on Facebook.
After doing some of your own homework learning all you can about the how to spot the warning signs of domestic abuse, let other readers know your thoughts about whether or not actor Johnny Depp was socially targeted by Heard for Love Fraud in what appears to be a successful attempt to make him trust her enough to fall in love.
Love Fraud con artists typically follow a pattern of targeting the most empathic mark they can find to use, followed by devaluing them socially and personally. The pattern of Narcissistic Abuse enacted by such personality types includes but is not limited to rushing to intimacy, forming intense trauma bonds, mirroring back to the person they have targeted that they are a “soul mate” (pretending to love everything a person does, using charm and sex to manipulate, and pretending to be the person of their dreams in every way).
Once a Love Fraud con artist has the trust and affection of their targeted victim, they begin to stop the process known as Love Bombing (showering a person with attention, affection, and compliments 24/7) and switch to more passive-aggressive styles of intermittent reinforcement. By alternating positive and negative treatment, the abusive personality type employs a brainwashing and mind control technique designed to shake the self-esteem and personal confidence of their mark.
Heard verbally abusing Depp then acting erratically with her behavior during the marriage meets the standard for Narcissistic Abuse. While Depp may be a recluse, he’s never had the reputation for abusing women; on the contrary, the women he’s pursued romantically have had a historical reputation of being very beautiful but cold, mean, and verbally abusive to most they come into contact with, meaning he tends (for whatever reason) to be drawn to loving women who have a propensity to abuse.
Heard claiming to have questionably loving pictures with his male child appears to be something akin to extortion. If she discloses the photos, Depp’s parenting judgement is likely to be widely criticized — with the step-mother seen being allowed to have photos taken of herself with the boy in intimate postures at best bordering on being taken in poor taste.
Heard claiming that the family did not hate her, that she scheduled all the nurses for Depp’s mother during her final days, and that she’s at the very least got some sort of intimate bond or connection to Depp’s teenage son appear to fit the pattern of a domestic abuser posturing to make a claim for money in court. By claiming she spent the past year of their marriage taking care of his family’s personal needs and that she’s close to at least one of his children, her lawyers can claim she’s owed for sacrificing her own career needs to be a caretaking daughter-in-law to her terminally ill mother-in-law as well as having played the role of perfect wife, step-mother, and romantic partner, too.
What do you think, readers? Was Heard setting Depp up for an expensive divorce? Noting that she waited to file until just after their one year anniversary and that she chose one of the most emotionally abusive times possible to file for a divorce (just days after his mother’s death when he’s more than likely consumed with grief and already under high stress) seems to point to a character who is charming, conniving, Machiavellian, and thinking of her own needs and best interests far more than those of the family she claims were in her own circle of trust as BFFs.
Johnny Depp and Amber Heard were married in February of 2015 on the 3rd day of the month at his home in Los Angeles. Following the ceremony, the couple headed back to his private island in the Bahamas where he used to reside with Pardis and his children. There, the couple allegedly held a second wedding ceremony for friends and family. In May of 2016, the actress filed for a divorce. Allegedly there was no prenup and the actress has requested alimony as well as equitable division of his estate and holdings.